Friendship in every letter

Friendle Mail matches your child with a friendle pal and delivers handwritten letters to your mailbox each month. We handle the reading, printing, and posting, so every child can enjoy a magical, worry-free experience.

Build confidence & self-expression through real letters

💌 Experience the joy of receiving mail every month

⏱️ Simple, fun, and just 20 minutes a month

Join our 2 month free trial

Free to join • No credit cards required • Limited to 20 children.

Founding Families Intake

Our first intake is limited to just 20 children. A small founding group helping us build something truly special.

We’re inviting just 20 children to join our very first Friendle Mail intake helping us gently shape how Friendle Mail grows.

This is a complimentary 2 month free trial so you can experience Friendle Mail.

It’s a small, thoughtful first intake for children who want to connect with new friends in a slow and meaningful way.

Join our 2 month free trial

Free to join • No credit cards required • Limited to 20 children.

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about our friendle pen pal program

  • Once you sign up, we match your child with a friendle pal and send out the first introduction letter. We may include fun activities, and gentle guidance to help keep the friendship flowing. Your child writes their reply on the template provided. Once complete an adult takes a photo of the letter and email’s it to us at letters@friendle.co.nz and we take care of the rest.

  • Friendle Mail is designed for children aged roughly 5–12. Younger children may enjoy writing with a little support, while older children often love expressing themselves more independently. If you’re unsure, we’re happy to guide you on what might suit your child best.

  • Safety is at the heart of everything we do. All letters are sent through Friendle Mail. Children never share personal details directly with their letter pal. We review letters to ensure they’re safe, kind, and age-appropriate.